Back to the real world, happy to be here.
Incidentally I Started up Spin class again this morning after 3 weeks off the bike. I think I'm drained today now for it. And I am still around 12lbs heavier than I was this time last year. Who knew all that exercise would make me add 4 lbs. to where I Started out trying to lose. Oh well, it's so insane I'm beyond comprehending those kind of numbers.
Of course first thing before spin class the buzz on the news station and a text from my mom was that
Osama bin Laden was killed. And that's the extent of any of that discussion for the day. Strangely, it was not of much talk around any water cooler or anything else for that matter. My personal thoughts:
yay I guess but I'm not sure it will have much, if any, impact on stopping the massive terrorist cells over in places that hate us. These days they're probably younger, bigger, and more bad ass anyway than the old fogie Bin Laden was. I think it's part of the world we live in. But hopefully this will bring some closure to the 9/11 families at the very least. I'm not sure. I frankly just don't know.
In matters I do have a better (somewhat) understanding of...last week I kept getting reports from Paul that Anna's afternoons at school were not good reports from her teacher, and that the evenings weren't much better. Complete with knock-down, drag-out fights with Paul and then apologies. But it's like she was pushing buttons on authority and I was sure that when I got home to have a talk with her about how it's better to be a good person,
yadda yadda yadda, that she'd recover and move on.
So we had a good little discussion. Or so I thought.
Our take on part of this is that there are a few holy terrors in her class who are FLAT OUT AWFUL in terms of behavior. We've seen first hand the effects it has had on the otherwise good kids in the class. They see this little jerk getting away with murder and the best behaved kids pull that same crap right in front of my eyes. Both Paul and I have told them if they keep it up we're telling their parents! Anna's teacher does very little to
actively squash the madness from this one particular brat who instigates fights and chases and overall poor behavior from others in the class. And Anna is I think picking up on the fact that this brat gets away with it and so it's time for her to test the water.
The thing is she gets her little butt into trouble at home for this, and at school the teacher tells us of the latest crap she's pulled and does little more I'm sure during the day to check Anna on it at school. So once home, the fun stuff and activities get taken away for that. Last week she lost some
privileges with Paul. Tonight she lost going over to
TJ's house to play while I was teaching (instead she did time at the clinic with daddy). She totally hated losing out on the fun, pitched a sad, sad fit, promised to behave tomorrow and it seemed to hit home but I guess we'll see how tomorrow goes at school.
The thing is we've thought about confronting the teacher on this, particularly letting on that we feel like half of this is a result of the fact that it's apparent to Anna the classroom is in chaos with this other kid in there, and that if he can do it, she can do it too. But instead, there are just 4 weeks left in this class and we've decided to use this as some kind of learning lesson for Anna (and us). Call us
naive, fine. But we're using this short remaining period to try to teach Anna that just because the kids in her classroom act like that, doesn't mean she can too. We're using it as a way to teach her not to follow, and that it's not acceptable to act like a little brat. In the real world, you don't jump off that bridge because the village idiot did. OK she's only 4 but she's impressionable all the way around. She gets it.
We'll see if she implements it :)